He was easy to talk to, had a good sense of humor and had good answers to your questions. Then, he finally called you, on Friday, to talk about the weekend. It was so nice to talk to a man you can have a great conversation with. The good news is, he suggests going out on Saturday night. While you and your date may have a great time, it doesn't mean the same thing to him as it does to you.2. While he certainly enjoys your company, he's more relaxed about seeing you.3. You smiled, laughed and shared similar ideas about life. Granted it’s not the kindest route to take, but that’s what it means. If he doesn’t respond, you’ll know he’s not that into you. It doesn’t matter how great your connection was or how much fun had on the date. Why make plans when he can get the women to call him and take care of it? You can feel free to offer an alternate time, which let's him know you are interested.Pulitzer Prize Winning Journalism The Blade’s 2004 investigation, “Buried Secrets, Brutal Truths,” earned a Pulitzer Prize for Investigative Reporting. Click here to view the series online » Block Communications, Inc., (BCI) is a 112-year-old privately held diversified media holding company headquartered in Toledo, OH.I've been used to getting exclusive usually within 4-8 weeks so I am comfortable moving fast early on.But I dated a guy that at 4 months was not ready (and we'd known each other for years) and knew another guy that said it took him 6 months to one year to decide.
I'm starting to get impatient and look elsewhere but I really like this guy and think we'd be good together. Continue to date him, and get to know him, but leave yourself open to meeting someone else as well..doesn't mean you have to go "looking" elsewhere, but just leave yourself open to it. And, it might make you feel less stressed out about where it's going with this guy. It doesn’t matter if he’s the smartest, most gorgeous, funniest, most interesting guy on the planet, if he’s not calling you, you can’t call him. It doesn’t matter if you’ve gone on a couple great dates and he already invited you to his mother’s birthday party. It doesn’t matter if you think you had the greatest connection when you met and that all you need to do is get on the phone and then he’ll hear your voice and realize you’re the woman of his dreams. Texting him the party address was not only unproductive, it made her appear desperate. The bottom line is if a guy doesn’t respond to you, do not contact him again. Imagine what Chris thought when Brittney contacted him that third time. Think about how you would feel if someone you weren’t that into kept texting you? That is his way of saying he doesn’t want to see you again. After you send your “thank you” text, you have a great opportunity to gauge his interest. After all, don’t you deserve to be with someone who’s nuts about you?